WE
RETARD LIFE'S FLOW & NATURAL DIRECTION BY HOLDING BACK
THE TRUTH. AND OUR CHOICE TO HOLD BACK IS OUR ATTEMPT TO CONTROL
LIFE.
Sometimes
we think that we're telling the truth, when in reality
what we're telling is our ego-based OPINION. And over the
noise of our opinion, the truth is rarely heard.
My OPINION
has nothing to do with the TRUTH. It is only my commentary
of the truth.
What's
your excuse for NOT telling the truth? For me, in my 12 years
of marriage I was proud to play the role as the self-proclaimed
PEACE
KEEPER. And keeping the peace was a very busy job! Did
you know that as a peace keeper you CAN'T tell the truth?
You have to do whatever it takes to keep the peace. So I did!
I did a marvelous job of holding this back, hiding that, avoiding
those, and before you know it...well, in my case, I created
this whole "other guy". I thought that's who the
relationship needed! And then I would complain to the guys
on the golf course that I just couldn't be
myself around her. My my my how we create what we get
and then complain!
"YEAH
BUT you don't understand who I was married to. I could never
be completely honest."
In truth,
we can ALWAYS tell the truth, we just CHOOSE not to. And then
we complain
about what we don't have.
HOLDING
BACK, HIDING OUT, NOT SPEAKING THE TRUTH, is nothing more
or less than trying to Manipulate and control people's reactions.
And Control never brings you the results you're after.
Remember
the Grand Prize question around every corner......
IS
WHAT I'M DOING GOING
TO BRING
ME WHAT I WANT?
Friends,
This is a very powerful place for you to give yourself a quick
check-up.
In what areas are you not being honest? Remember, when you're
not truthful, you're not congruent with yourself. And then
life is out of kilter and without FLOW. And so is Love.
Get clear
on your excuse for not telling the truth. Get clear on what
you're Fearing. Look for ways to practice TELLING THE TRUTH
vs. TELLING YOUR OPINION. Become a student of the differences.
We must
move thru the Fears that keep us holding back. And we can
make huge LEAPS by noticing when we don't tell the truth,
and then making new choices to do so.
Notice
how Light and Free you feel when you can let go and start
telling the truth.
Start
letting the truth & SET YOU FREE!
