Get
with your partner and give them permission to GO. Get with your
friends and give them permission to not call you if they so
desire. LET GO. Give your poodle to your cousin and loan your
Ferrari to me! Look for ways of letting go!
Now let's
don't go nuts here. I'm not advocating ending your relationships
and giving away your possessions. I'm advocating getting rid
of the power they hold over you that comes from your
believing that you must
have them for your joy. Things "out
there" do not hold your joy. It's your "belief"
that they do that's keeping you clogged.
Just notice
for a moment how the higher your income goes the more you
spend and the bigger your toys become. Is your Joy Quotient
any higher than it was years ago when you were driving that
VW Bug? Do you really think that your joy is from the "things"?
I don't even know you and I'll tell you the answer to that
one...NO!
This is
a journey back
to yourself. And the paths we each choose have different
obstacles and roadblocks. Go there. Buy the things. Get married.
Experience your life. And while you're doing so keep your eyes
wide open and take it all in. Take in where your joy
is NOT. And don't get discouraged. Use your disappointments
as GOOD INFORMATION. And it will all lead you back to the same
place where your joy has been waiting all along. It'll all lead
you in a big circle back to you.
