my opinion

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TRUTH is the giver of life & love, while OPINION is the taker of the same.

I want to give you something of GREAT value for free. It's almost epidemic how we're throwing our Opinions out there disguised as Truth and then we wonder how we created such a darn mess!
"You work too much".
"You never say that you love me".
"You make me feel unloved".
"You need to be more aggressive".
"You eat too much".

THESE ARE THE TRUTH, RIGHT?

Not even one of them. They're each an opinion. And opinions are our candy-coated yellow-bellied way of speaking the truth. And that candy-coating almost always insures the truth will NOT BE HEARD.

My OPINION

My TRUTH

You work too much

I miss you

You never say that you love me

I desire to hear “I love you”

You make me feel unloved

I feel unloved

You need to be more aggressive

I would love to see you more aggressive

You shouldn’t have talked to her for so long

I felt jealous when you talked with her

You need to stop yelling at me

I don’t deserve your yelling

 

I bring you the GOOD NEWS of a very simple jewel I've learned thru years of creating what I DON'T want:

There is a night 'n day difference
between my Truth and my Opinion.

One fuels love, the other destroys love. And most folks with whom I begin work do not understand the difference.

Look at the chart above, insert your own values, and then notice one distinct difference between the two sides...

 

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