Get
Naked! That's what they wanna see anyway, so show 'em!
Now
hold on before you go do something we'll both regret.
You
know what we love most in folks? Their humanness. Their
REAL side. Their down-home barefoot lovable selves. We're doing
this thing backwards
I'm telling ya! Our efforts to show our "polished" side
while hiding the side that's real, always brings us the opposite
of what we're trying to get. What is it that we want? LOVE! Intimacy!
Respect! Admit it. It's OK. A ton of you are so convinced you'll
never have love that you've sworn off even wanting it!
Holy cow!Love and life are calling you my friend, waiting
for you to come play! But you gotta show up...all of
you.
The
first thing many of us think about when entering a room
or meeting a guy or gal is, "Will they like me"?
You
may not know it, but that's on your mind! And then our inner chatters
take over (in 2.3 seconds) and assesses that we'd better
make Sure they'll like us. That means,
we'd better not show them this side and we'd better not
tell them about that. And so the lie
begins.
INTO
ME SEE. That's what brings about Intimacy. Letting you
see into me. The real me. Not the other me that I put
in front of you when I want you to like me. EMOTIONAL NUDITY.
"But
I could never show him that side of me! He might leave!"
room
or meeting a guy or gal is, "Will they like me"?