"I
don’t KNOW what I want! Sometimes I'm not even sure
who that guy is in the mirror!"
Feeling
lost is what happens to a ship with no rudder. When its course
is undefined it soon loses its bearings and North looks like
South.
Your "rudder"
is critical. Rudder? What the heck is my rudder?
Your bearings.
Your ground zero. Your integrity. WHO
YOU ARE. When we're busy trying to make life "work"
we often compromise who we are without knowing it. We lose
ourselves while keeping things under control.
In
relationships you may not speak up or stand up for what
you know is healthy or good. In our career it may look like
going thru the "motions" vs. doing what you love.
In life in general it may look like losing touch with how
you feel or with what you want in any given situation.
I see
folks "lose touch" with themselves when they take
their eyes off what's TRUE and begin buying into what's
NOT TRUE. This happens often when there's an obsession with
keeping a relationship together. "Doing what it takes"
to make it work may look to some as forgetting self. In
that process "forgetting" self becomes "losing"
self.
Get clear
and stay clear on what you KNOW and on what
is TRUE. This is extremely important in a world with so
many contrasting opinions.
Have you
ever compromised what's most important to you in a relationship,
only to wake up months or years later feeling lost and wondering
who that stranger is beside you?
