A dangerous aspect of
our sense of judgment on others is this: We're largely oblivious
to it! That's right! There's a good chance that you are
reading this article and thinking how right I am about other
folks in your life, and how far you've come with this matter.
Right? The horse-sense of it all is that...you and I are
very very good at fooling ourselves! I want you to get the
life that you're shielding yourself from by this self-deceipt.
Here. Let this be a
thought stirrer for you. Do you find yourself:
Frustrated with your own inabilities?
Thinking that your child or
your mate or your dog should be doing whatever it is that
they're doing differently?
Wishing that your partner was
different?
Not reaching out to a friend
because they haven't reached out to you?
Assuming?
Reacting?
Resentful?
Carrying anger AT someone?
These are just
a few hints that you're at times living life from the judge's
bench, making some kind of assessment about another or even
about yourself, passing
some sort of "value" of rightness or wrongness.
I'm not telling you that you're doing anything wrong here.
Relax, we all do it! But...
My
friends, I'm telling you that this mindset is silent,
it's lethal and it pushes away life and people from your
experience while you blame others for what you don't have.
And recognition of WHEN and HOW and WHY you do it will
bring FRUIT BABY!
Do yourself a big
favor. Become a student of yourself. Relax. Make the shift
from observer of others to observer of yourself. Understand
who you are, what you're about and how you tick. Without
judgment! This is key to living in life's flow.
